I thought I would share an update with all of you. 

(My husband, Hank Janicki, died on Jan 23, 2025)

So many have asked how I am doing, and one person in particular asked me that today. Here is my answer to all of you. ♥️

I truly appreciate your care and concern for me. Yes, I am taking care of myself and have worked on my grief and the beginning of healing very seriously this past year.

When I remember my husband Hank, I focus on the good times we had, the everyday moments, and even the struggles we went through together. His sudden diagnosis of stage 4 colon cancer stunned and rocked our lives as we knew them. From diagnosis to his death, it was only 8 months. Such a short time that seemed like a lifetime. So hard to believe.

His death left an indelible mark on my heart, one that is healing more and more each day. Obviously, he will never be forgotten, and I realize I am a different person than I was before he died.

What would Hank think? Being together for 28 years, we talked about so much in his last days. We spoke about how short life is, not being afraid to love again, continuing to be someone who loves and cares deeply about others, and always being kind and good to people, just to name a few.

My new life is unfolding with my participation. Stepping forward with an open heart and an open mind is where I am going each day.

I’m excited to meet new people, catch up with old friends, and discover what each day and each experience brings. It is my choice to be happy because, deep down, I feel that way. This does not mean I do not cry sometimes, but crying does not mean I am unhappy either.

The quotes I send out each day reflect what I am feeling and thinking about when I choose them. They have become a wonderful kind of journal for me, a gentle reminder to stay focused, optimistic, and positive every day.

So yes, I am doing well, and thank you for caring. I am at peace with where I am and thankful for everything: the lessons, the challenges, the opportunities, and the many blessings.

Wish me well as I navigate these uncharted waters. I look forward to what lies ahead because I choose to. And the woman you have always known still has that same kind heart and love for you.

Take care, and thank you again for being here.

May love and blessings always find a way into your life,
Marlene. ♥️♥️♥️

P.S.  Here is a video that we put together for Hank's celebration of life.  It is a collection of photos, of friends and our backyard that Hank use to love for Christmas.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WzkUhIW570Q

Marlene Blaszczyk

Founder, Owner, and a Positive Force In The World

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