Quote:
"Life works when you choose what you got. Actually what you got is what you chose. To move on, choose it."
--- Werner Erhard

Talking out loud:
Many people don't believe that the life they have is the one they chose because they thought it would be different than it is.

Be conscious of what you are doing, what you are saying, what you feeling.  Make sure that they are in line with your goal.

Until you get the life you want, love the life you have.